Friday, October 27, 2006

If A Man..

This applies to both genders.. just replace man with woman where appropriate:

* If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

* If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

* Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

* Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.

* Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

* If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

* Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

* Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

* The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

* Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

* Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

* Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

* You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

* Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.

* He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

* Never let a man define who you are.

* Never borrow someone else's man.

* If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

* A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

* You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.

* A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.

* Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

8 comments:

ZiZoTiMe said...

Heeeeeeeeey!! (Scary look)... Watch ur language when you're talking about men!!!! :P

MSB said...

zizo: ay scary look? after the baby pic, khallas.. scary doesnt work anymore! :P

thuman gelnalek replace 'man' with 'woman'.. read the first line again

=)

Dr.Lost said...

hmm.. interesting points you got there.. many sound true.. :)

MSB said...

dr.lost: elmeshkila who actually remembers them when the time comes? =)

Anonymous said...

You know MSB, this is really disappointing. I mean, you blog, and people read it. But you don't attribute your sources. Do you really think that's right now? I mean, you obviously didn't write the above (a simple google would reveal.) Why don't you follow blog manners? Or is plagiarism only confined to work and school? (Or perhaps you plagiarise at work as well?)

MSB said...

anonymous: all it takes is u reading the post right before this to see that i DO attribute stuff when i know who the writer is.. other things are obvious and forwarded to hundreds of ppl via email. never claimed i wrote any of it and i think my readers r smart enough to know i didnt. i just dont know who the original writer.

speaking of manners, u sure know how to attack personally instead of just sticking to the issue ur commenting about.

Maze said...

I agree with all...but as u said when time comes who actually remembers...each one would remove their masks and show their real face....

MSB said...

maze: cuz at the end of the day, we're almost all suckers =)